Friday, November 28, 2008

Thankful Fridays...

Today, I am thankful for...

1. Gas! My dad had gas last night for the first time, so they are advancing his diet today! He is allowed to have broth now! HOORAY for gas!

2. Nap time. Our little one was a little out of sorts this morning and is finally napping! We LOVE nap time on mornings like these!

3. An out of the ordinary Thanksgiving. Since my dad is in the hospital, we did not celebrate Turkey Day with my family yesterday. We had breakfast with Ryan's family (a tradition) and then went to the hospital to see my mom and dad. Then, we put up our Christmas tree and my sister and I tackled my mom's tree yesterday evening. It was a productive day, but I am sure we did not consume 4000-6000 calories as they say is the average for people on an ordinary Thanksgiving!

4. Bison. I made our first meal with bison today for lunch. We haven't tried it yet, but we are looking forward to seeing if we like this healthier alternative to beef.

5. Rest. I was able to sleep in this morning thanks to Ryan getting up with Matthew. It was so nice to be able to sleep until 8 since I get to go to work tonight!

Have a great weekend!

Gobble, Gobble, Gobble!


We had our own little butterball this year for Thanksgiving! Thanks to Aunt Abby and Uncle Jared for the cute turkey headband! Hope everyone had a blessed Thanksgiving! We certainly have much to be thankful for!

Wednesday, November 26, 2008

15 Things That Change When You Have A Baby

I found this on www.babycenter.com. Hope you enjoy!

15 Things That Change When You Have A Baby

1. You finally stop to smell the roses, because your baby is in your arms.
2. Where you once believed you were fearless, you now find yourself afraid.
3. The sacrifices you thought you made to have a child no longer seem like sacrifices.
4. You respect your body ... finally.
5. You respect your parents and love them in a new way.
6. You find that your baby's pain feels much worse than your own.
7. You believe once again in the things you believed in as a child.
8. You lose touch with the people in your life whom you should have banished years ago.
9. Your heart breaks much more easily.
10. You think of someone else 234,836,178,976 times a day.
11. Every day is a surprise.
12. Bodily functions are no longer repulsive. In fact, they please you. (Hooray for poop!)
13. You look at your baby in the mirror instead of yourself.
14. You become a morning person.
15. Your love becomes limitless, a superhuman power.

Monday, November 24, 2008

Dad's Surgery

Hello to all!

My dad has his surgery today! It was a 3 1/2 hour procedure. They tried to do it laparascopically, however, after working for an hour, the doctor had to open his abdomen. He had to take 1 1/2 feet of his colon, but was able to put him back together again (NO COLOSTOMY)!!!! He will be in the hospital for 7-10 days and then a 6-8 week recovery after that! He was very tired after surgery and in quite a bit of pain. Hopefully he will be feeling much better in the next couple days!

Thanks so much for your prayers!

Friday, November 21, 2008

Taking the Good with the Bad...

I finally received a phone call back from the office manager where I interviewed last week. There is good news and there is bad news. The good news: they feel like I am a great fit for their office, they eliminated the other candidate during the interview process, they want me to come and shadow next week. The bad news: there is a physician in Warsaw who is interested in coming to the southwest office (where I interviewed) starting in February. The original plan for this office was to fill an NP position (me) in December and then bring another doctor on in September 09. However, this doc is possibly interested in starting in February. The office manager told me she did not want to bring me on board and then not have enough work for me if the doc starts in Feb. So.... I am going to go ahead with the shadowing next Wednesday and hope that goes well... The office manager feels strongly that an NP is a better fit for what their office needs right now, however, I kind of got the impression that if the doc chooses this office then there is really no decision to be made. If you're the praying type, would you join us in praying about this position. It would be a great starting point for me, however, there seem to be a few hoops to jump through first! I am going to continue to pursue this position as well as any other positions that might become available. We will keep you posted as we learn more!

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Lego my... head?



I just realized we hadn't posted any pictures for awhile, so here are a couple of our little guy!



Doesn't my daddy know that you're supposed to play with Legos on the ground?


Ironic... isn't it?

So, we officially made the switch tonight to eat healthier. We are going to try to be much more cautious of the things we put in our bodies and choose healthier snacks. We are doing this for ourselves, but also for our child(ren). It is scary to think of all the pesticides and hormones used on our produce and in our meat/dairy supply. We are NOT going to be ridiculous... so don't worry, when we come to your house for a meal we will still be able to eat. We are just going to be better about reading labels and evaluating what we put in our mouths... hence we are going to treat our bodies as temples.

The irony in this happened just a few minutes ago. We were on our way home from the grocery with organic food in tow and we both looked at each other and said... "Do you want a pop for the last time?" So, in honor of our switch to the healthier side of life, we are both enjoying a pop from McDonald's this evening! I have a feeling fast food won't be a staple in our menu planning here on the homefront! We'll let you know how it goes!

Thankful Thursdays...

Today, I am thankful for...

1. A job. In the midst of the troubled economy, it is nice to have a job and know that people are going to continue to get sick (unfortunate for them) and be in need of care (fortunate for me). I still haven't heard anything about the interview from last week. I am not sure what that means. I felt pretty good when I left and was told we were moving onto the next stage, but I was supposed to shadow the doc yesterday and never heard from the lady to confirm that, so.... I think I am going to wait until tomorrow to call again and then if I still don't hear back I will just chalk it up to good interview experience and move on. I am not sure when I will become a nuisance, but I am also not going to wait around forever and let other jobs pass me by while I wait.

2. The Culligan Man. I think I might have posted this awhile back on a Thankful Thursday, but we LOVE our Culligan man! He just delivered me more salt this morning and it is so nice to know that our tank is happy and full!

3. Our organized storage room. Ryan and I spent two evenings awhile back organizing our storage "shed" as we call it. Now, all of the tubs have numbers and we have a typed list of what each tub contains... it is so nice to send Ryan to the basement and tell him to bring tub #44 up for me. Yes, we do have 50+ tubs of stuff (Christmas decor, table decor, maternity clothes, college stuff, baby clothes that Matthew can't wear anymore, etc)

4. Organic food. Ryan and I have decided to go "organic" at our house. Tonight we are going to the grocery store to buy some new food items and get rid of some of the junk we have been consuming recently. We are going to try to do it a little at a time, so that our bodies don't go into shock, but our goal is to eat more whole foods (fruits and veggies) and avoid highly processed food. We are hoping this will be a change we can live with, but I am sure we will be posting more as we discover how different it is to eat some carrots instead of a carton of Chips Ahoy!

5. Gordman's. We went to this department store yesterday for the first time! Holy Cow! It is huge and has just about everything! We spent almost 2 hours in there and definitely didn't see everything! I am sure we will be going sometime. Definitely impressed with their home decor section! I bought several Christmas gifts... including Matthew's GOLD gift! SHHHH! It's a secret!One drawback to the store was that it was very difficult to get through with a stroller. The salespeople said that it was just because it was Christmastime, but I definitely would not want to try to navigate through that place when it is busy!

This was a really long Thankful Thursday! Guess I have a lot to be thankful for!

Have a great weekend!

Monday, November 17, 2008

It's Beginning to Look A Lot Like...

Christmas!!!!

Everywhere we go it is shouting Christmas! And while it doesn't seem like it can be time to get out all the beautiful decorations (which is what I should be doing instead of typing this), I can't help but notice all the signs of Christmas around us!

Now that Ryan and I have a child, we have decided to do Christmas slightly differently this year. Growing up we both have some really vivid memories of what Christmas meant at our houses, and as we were talking about those memories, we both realized most of them had nothing to do with the gifts we received and had much more do to with the people we spent Christmas with and the family traditions we shared. So, we have decided to adjust our focus this Christmas and start a family tradition of our own (which I heard about at a Mom's Morning Out a few months ago, thanks Erica!).

From this point forward, everyone in our immediate family will receive three gifts at Christmas time to signify the three gifts that the wise men brought baby Jesus (this part I had heard of before). This is the new part... the first gift represents the gold which is the "big" gift (whatever the person really wants, within reason of course). The second gift represents the frankencense (no idea how to spell that one... but it is supposed to be something for the body, like clothing or perfume, etc). The final gift represents myrhh (not sure how to spell that either, but this gift is something for the mind such as a game, book, etc.). Ryan and I really want the focus to be about the real reason for the season for our family. We get so caught up in shopping for the perfect giftsssssssssssss and forget why we even celebrate. We are also going to try to start some other family traditions of our own as some of our fondest memories revolve around being close to home and close to family at holiday time!

Merry Christmas!

Saturday, November 15, 2008

I Survived!

Well, work was better than I thought. I was busy, so that made it easier! Matthew was just waking up for the first time when I got home, so I was able to see him and feed him! I am glad I only have to do this 2 times/week right now. Maybe sometime soon I will have a nurse practitioner job. My interview went well yesterday! I am going to be shadowing the doctor a day next week to see if we "mesh" well. I am trying not to get my hopes up, but am cautiously optimistic! Back to work tonight... then I am done for the week! Hooray!

Friday, November 14, 2008

Back to work...

Well, I am headed back to work tonight... I have only cried twice today! Once, while I was playing with Matthew this afternoon and I realized how much I would miss him even though most of the time I am gone he will be asleep. And the other time is right now. Ryan just took him out to his parents' house for the evening. I thought I was ready to go back and I am sure once I get there I will be fine, but right now I am sad and lonely. I am sure the fact that I have been up since 6 AM this morning with no nap is not at all helping my emotional state! Hope everyone has a great weekend! I am looking forward to it being over!

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Thankful Thursdays!

Today, I am thankful for...

1. Adam and Rachel making it safely to Hawaii for their honeymoon. After many delays they arrived safely Tuesday morning! We can't wait to hear all about their incredible trip!

2. My dad being home. He is resting and enjoying some foods in preparation for his surgery on November 24th. We are also thankful for all the good news we received this week from the doctors!

3. A job interview. I am interviewing for a nurse practitioner job tomorrow at 11:30. I go back to work tomorrow night, so it is pretty amazing timing. I am glad to have an interview even just for the experience... I really haven't had a formal interview for a job in more than 5 years. I am sure I will be nervous!

4. Starting cereal with Matthew. Everyone has been telling me if I start cereal with Matthew he will sleep so much better and not need to eat so often. Ryan and I gave him his first bites of cereal last night and again this morning. He smiled the entire time, but we aren't sure if he swallowed any of it. We are glad to have reached this milestone, however, he got up 3 times last night, so I don't think the cereal really helped in the sleeping department! Oh well!

5. Going back to work tomorrow. Although I am somewhat dreading going back, I know it will be good for me to be around adults again. I am officially fluent in baby language and look forward to interacting with grown-ups again!

Tuesday, November 11, 2008

Prayer Request #2 Answered!

More good news today! Dad had his colonoscopy and there is no cancer! The doctor said it looked better than he thought it would and that dad has responded well to the antibiotics. He is being released from the hospital today and will return on November 24th for surgery with a 7-10 day recovery in the hospital after that. The doctor felt that 7 more days of oral antibiotics would increase the chances of being able to perform the surgery laparascopically and decrease the risk for a colostomy. We are very happy with this news and quite relieved! Thank you all for your prayers... we are so grateful!
Jamie

Monday, November 10, 2008

Aunt Rachel's wedding!



The happy couple, Mr. and Mrs. Adam Martin!


Our nephew Jacob, showing his moves on the dance floor. He danced all night!

Matthew in his tuxedo! He was not too happy about his outfit for the festivities!


Aunt Rachel and Matthew!




Our family!

Visiting Papa at the hospital on Sunday afternoon. Matthew wanted a bite of his popsicle pretty bad!
He just talked and talked and talked to Papa while we were there!

Prayer Request #1 answered!

Thanks for all your prayers for my dad. He had his cardiac catheterization this morning and his heart looks good! He did not require any intervention! The doctor said that the scans are accurate at detecting an abnormality 95% of the time and that dad was in the 5% where there was a false positive! We are thankful for this news and are glad that the colo-rectal surgeons can proceed with the next step in getting his colon healed. He will likely have a CT scan today or tomorrow and then a colonoscopy to follow with surgery hopefully at the end of the week! Thanks in advance for your prayers! We will update as we know more!
Jamie

Friday, November 7, 2008

Prayer Request

Please pray for my Dad. He is still in the hospital. He was transferred to Parkview Main in Fort Wayne on Thursday afternoon to be evaluated by a colo-rectal surgeon for his diverticulitis. The surgeon was very nice and very thorough and said that my dad needed to have the diseased portion of his colon removed. Before surgery he needed to be cleared by a cardiologist because of his previous heart history, so today he underwent a stress test on his heart. There was some abnormality with the test, so now on Monday he has to have a heart catheritization. Later in the week they will repeat an abdominal CT scan to look at his colon and then do a colonoscopy prior to surgery to make sure there is nothing else wrong prior to operating. Surgery will then follow after that with a 7-10 day recovery in the hospital. He is very bummed about all this but is trying to be in good spirits and put on a good front for people.

Here are my specific prayer requests:

1. The heart catheritization would go smoothly and they would be able to easily fix the problem.
2. The colonoscopy would be clear except for the diverticulitis, specifically, no cancer.
3. My dad's mental health while he spends many days looking at the same four walls.
4. My mom's strength and stamina during these busy days.
5. The doctors and nurses who are caring for my dad.

We will post updates as we know more. Thanks in advance for your prayers!

Thursday, November 6, 2008

Thankful Thursdays...

Today, I am thankful for...

1. My dad. He has been in the hospital since Sunday night. He had a flare up of his diverticulitis and has been receiving IV antibiotics to get it calmed down. Matthew and I dropped by this morning and he was feeling much better! We are thankful for the great care he has been receiving.

2. Rachel and Adam. On Saturday, Ryan's little sister will get married. We are so excited for them and so thankful for their presence in our lives!

3. Decaf coffee. I did not drink any coffee while I was pregnant, mainly because it did not sound good. I have learned to love coffee again and am thankful for the decaf version so our little guy is not wired all the time!

4. Seven and a half straight hours of sleep. Matthew went to bed around nine last night and did not get up until 5:30 this morning. Then, he went back to sleep until 6:30.... I am feeling very refreshed this morning!

5. Nap time. We are finally on a bit of a schedule with Matthew's naps. He has taken two great morning naps in a row for me despite spending most of the day at the hospital yesterday! He is such a little trooper!

Have a great weekend!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

A Tuxedo Bib...Who Knew?

Matthew has been getting excited for Aunt Rachel's wedding this weekend! He looks so cute in his tuxedo bib, we can't wait to see him in his actual tuxedo! Yes, that's right, he has his very own tuxedo... you can find anything on the internet and for only $24.95!!!!! If anyone needs a tuxedo for a 3 month old, it will be available after Saturday!

History in the Making...

Well, Ryan and I only made it up until about 10 o'clock last night watching the numbers for the candidates, but we were excited to watch history in the making! When I was up feeding Matthew around 3 AM and Indiana had still not been called, I felt privileged to have taken part in such a big election! I feel blessed to live in the United States of America! We enjoyed reading other's blogs and Facebook entries regarding their decisions in this election and were torn as to whether to make a post about our own decision. We chose to wait for different reasons, but now that it is over, I have decided to post some ramblings...

The candidate we voted for will not be the next president of the United States. Our decision to vote for him was more a decision not to vote for President-elect Obama. We felt very strongly that his position on abortion and gay marriage were in direct conflict with what the Bible says, and although we know there are issues that we did not agree with Senator McCain on, abortion and gay marriage were huge red flags for us as a married couple with a new baby. Despite our disappointment, we pray that President-elect Obama will have a change of heart and realize the value of an unborn child. We are excited for our nation as many barriers were broken last night and steps were taken in a positive direction for a nation that has a long history of racial division. We will stand united with our new president and will pray for the people who are going to be making decisions that will undoubtedly change our nation! A man who is much wiser than either of us, Pastor John Piper, said it so eloquently in this video, "We are not on this earth to advocate for any political party but to advocate for Christ." Ryan and I will continue to pledge our allegiance to Christ and watch as He continues to be our ultimate Commander in Chief.

We have taken the comments link off for this post because we did not want this to become a political forum. You can use your own blog for that! Now, back to the cute pictures of our little guy!

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

A Baby Giraffe!



A baby giraffe and his parents... I think he resembles Ryan, don't you?



Playing in the leaves!




Hanging out in a tree!

Thought for today...

As I walked into my polling place to vote this morning, this is what the church's sign read: "Tomorrow is uncertain, but heaven is for sure." Thank goodness we have a God that is bigger than all of this and no matter the outcome our future is secure. God Bless America!

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Happy Halloween

I would love to post pictures of Matthew in his main Halloween costume, but I can't yet. We will be doing the majority of our trick-or-treating later this morning. He did have 2 costumes, so I will post some of his monkey costume!!!



Monkey-man!

Matthew came to visit Daddy at work and go trick-or-treating!


Matthew visiting Daddy at work. We had already ditched the Monkey costume after getting too hot!

Looks just like Daddy!